A unique approach to serious illness and end-of-life planning — meeting people where they are at.
Who it's for
Planning for yourself, supporting a loved one, or working as a professional.
What it is
A guided reflection tool, a personalised plan, and an intuitive resource guide — all in one place.
Why it matters
Because leaving difficult decisions to the people you love is one of the heaviest burdens you can pass on.
When to use it
Before a crisis, during caregiving, when a diagnosis hits, or simply out of curiosity.
We plan for everything… except this.
We map out our careers, our retirement, our finances — but the one chapter that affects everyone gets left to chance.
Wills speak for you after you're gone. My Elephant helps you speak for yourself while you're still here — to shape your care, your legacy, and your wishes in the time that matters most.
Three steps to help you reflect, refine, and prepare - at your own pace.
Everything you need for peace of mind
Three powerful tools that work together to support you.
What This Isn't
We do not create legal documents or offer medical advice — but we can suggest trusted resources for when you're ready to take those next steps.
Frequently Asked Questions
Real stories. Real reasons.
"We avoided these conversations until it was too late. We were left guessing, and even arguing, and it made everything harder than it needed to be."
— Anonymous
"I'm healthy, but I don't want to leave things unsaid or unplanned. This feels like a simple way to take care of the people I love."
— Anonymous
"When my grandmother got sick, everything felt overwhelming. We didn't understand our options, and we were trying to figure it out in real time."
— Anonymous
See what your plan looks like
Here is an example of a My Elephant Plan. Yours will be uniquely tailored to your answers, values, and wishes.
My Elephant Plan
Prepared for Margaret Chen — March 2026
Personal Portrait
Margaret is a retired teacher who values dignity, independence, and staying connected to her garden and grandchildren. She prefers gentle communication and finds comfort in familiar routines, music, and the company of loved ones.
Immediate Steps
- • Share this plan with daughter Sarah
- • Schedule conversation with partner about care preferences
- • Organise important documents in one location
Care Preferences
- • Wishes to remain at home as long as possible
- • Comfort-focused care preferred
- • Daughter Sarah as primary advocate
Caregiver Guide
Margaret feels most at ease when spoken to gently and without rush. She finds comfort in classical music, her garden, and holding hands. She prefers to be part of decisions as long as possible and values her dignity above all.
This is an anonymised example. Your plan will reflect your own words and wishes.
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